LESSON 26
A Love That Transforms
A Love That Transforms
Being in love changes everything! A young lady was reading a large book for her university English literature course and found it very boring, barely able to stay focused. But then she met a young professor on campus, and they quickly fell in love. Soon she realized her beloved was the author of the book she had struggled with. That night she stayed up and devoured the entire book, exclaiming, “This is the best book I have ever read!” What changed her perspective? Love did. Likewise, many today find Scripture boring, unappealing, and even oppressive. But that all changes when you fall in love with its Author. See how in this heart-warming lesson!

1. Who is the Author of Scripture?

Read what the Bible says: 1 Peter 1:10,11.

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Virtually every book of the Bible refers to Jesus Christ — even the Old Testament books. Jesus created the world (John 1:1–3,14; Colossians 1:13–17), wrote the Ten Commandments (Nehemiah 9:6,13), was the God of Israel (1 Corinthians 10:1–4), and guided the writings of the prophets (1 Peter 1:10,11). So Jesus Christ is the Author of Scripture.

2. What is Jesus’ attitude toward the people of earth?

Read what the Bible says: John 3:16.

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Jesus loves us all with an unfailing love that surpasses understanding (John 3:16).

3. What does the devil claim about the Christian life, and what does Jesus say?

Read what the Bible says: John 10:10.

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The devil claims that following Christian principles is drab, dull, demeaning, and legalistic. But Jesus says it brings fullness of joy — and a more abundant life (John 10:10). Believing the devil’s lies brings heartache and deprives people of life that is “really living.”

4. What does Jesus say results from doing the things that please Him?

Read what the Bible says: John 15:10,11.

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Jesus says that keeping His commandments lets us abide in His love, and His joy fills us and makes our joy complete (John 15:10,11).

5. In what respects are a successful marriage and the Christian life similar?

Read what the Bible says: 1 John 3:22.

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In a good marriage certain things are imperative, such as faithfulness to one’s spouse. Other things may seem minor, but if they please a spouse they are necessary; if they displease, they should be discontinued. So it is with the Christian life: the commands of Jesus are imperative, but in Scripture He has also outlined principles of conduct that please Him. As in a good marriage, Christians find it a joy to do the things that make the One they love happy (1 John 3:22).

6. Why do we love Jesus?

Read what the Bible says: Romans 5:8; 1 John 4:19.

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We love Him because He loved us enough to die for us — while we were still His enemies (Romans 5:8; 1 John 4:19).

7. Why does Jesus give us specific principles for Christian living?

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Because they: A. are given for our good always (Deuteronomy 6:24). As good parents teach good principles to their children, so Jesus teaches good principles to His children. B. Safeguard us from sin (Psalm 119:11). C. Show us how to follow in Christ’s footsteps (1 Peter 2:21). D. Bring us true joy (John 13:17). E. Give us an opportunity to express our love for Him (John 15:10). F. Help us be a good example to others (1 Corinthians 10:31–33; Matthew 5:16).

8. According to Jesus, how should Christians relate to the evil of the world and worldliness?

Read what the Bible says: 1 John 2:15,16; James 4:4; James 1:27.

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A. Do not love the world or the things in the world. This includes (1) the lust of the flesh, (2) the lust of the eyes, and (3) the pride of life (1 John 2:16). All sin falls into one or more of these categories. When we begin to love the world, we become enemies of God (1 John 2:15; James 4:4). B. We must keep ourselves unspotted from the world (James 1:27).

9. What urgent warning does God give us regarding the world?

Read what the Bible says: Romans 12:2; Philippians 4:13; James 4:7.

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Jesus warns not to be conformed to this world (Romans 12:2). The devil is not neutral — he presses every Christian constantly. Through Jesus (Philippians 4:13) we must firmly resist the devil’s suggestions, and he will flee from us (James 4:7). The minute we allow the “squeezing” of any other factor to influence our conduct, we begin, perhaps imperceptibly, slipping into apostasy. Christian behavior is decided not by feelings or the conduct of the majority, but by Jesus’ words.

10. Why do we need to guard our thoughts?

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We must guard our thoughts because thoughts dictate behavior, and the Bible says a person becomes what he thinks in his heart (Proverbs 23:7). God wants to help us bring every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ (2 Corinthians 10:5). But Satan desperately wants to bring “the world” into our thoughts, and he can do this only through our five senses — especially sight and hearing. The Bible is clear: we become like the things we repeatedly see and hear (2 Corinthians 3:18).

11. What are some principles for Christian living?

Read what the Bible says: Philippians 4:8.

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Christians separate themselves from all things that are not true, honest, just, pure, lovely, and of good report (Philippians 4:8). They avoid: A. dishonesty of every kind — cheating, lying, stealing, being unfair, slander, and betrayal; B. impurity of every kind — fornication, adultery, pornography, profanity, off-color jokes, degrading songs, and most of what is shown on television and in theaters; C. places where they would never invite Jesus to accompany them, such as nightclubs, casinos, and the like.

12. What list does Jesus give us that we could use as a guide for what we watch?

Read what the Bible says: Galatians 5:19–21.

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Jesus lists the works of the flesh: adultery, fornication, uncleanness, idolatry, hatred, jealousy, wrath, contentions, heresies, murders, drunkenness, revelries, and the like — and says that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God (Galatians 5:19–21). If a family banned everything that portrays or condones these sins, there would be very little to watch. A safe rule is: “Would I invite Jesus to watch this with me?”

13. What does Jesus say about those who make spiritual choices purely by their own feelings?

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Jesus is unequivocal: we are not to do whatever seems right in our own eyes (Deuteronomy 12:8). There is a way that seems right to a person, but its end is death (Proverbs 16:25). A fool’s way seems right to him, but wise is the one who heeds counsel (Proverbs 12:15). The Bible calls a fool anyone who trusts in his own heart (Proverbs 28:26). My choices and conduct must be guided by the words of Scripture, not by my own feelings.

14. What solemn warnings does Jesus give about the example and influence of our lives?

Read what the Bible says: Matthew 18:6; Romans 14:13; Romans 14:7.

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Jesus warns that whoever causes one of the little ones who believe in Him to sin would be better off drowned in the depth of the sea with a millstone around his neck (Matthew 18:6). We must not put a stumbling block or a cause to fall in a brother’s way (Romans 14:13), for none of us lives to himself (Romans 14:7). Christians who disregard their influence and example are in danger of leading people away from His kingdom.

15. What are Jesus’ principles of conduct regarding clothing and jewelry?

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A. Dress modestly (1 Timothy 2:9,10). The world’s vices enter our lives through the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life (1 John 2:16); immodest dress involves all three. B. Cast aside ornaments. The issue here is the “pride of life.” The appearance of Jesus’ followers sends light to others (Matthew 5:16). In the Bible jewelry is often a symbol of apostasy: when Jacob’s family rededicated their lives to God, they buried their jewelry (Genesis 35:1,2,4); before entering the Promised Land the Lord commanded them to remove their ornaments (Exodus 33:5,6). In Isaiah 3:19–23 and Hosea 2:13 wearing jewelry is linked to backsliding, while Peter and Paul teach us to adorn ourselves with a gentle and quiet spirit (1 Peter 3:3,4) and good works. In Revelation 12:1 the faithful church is a pure woman clothed with the sun, and the apostate church is a harlot bedecked with gold and pearls (Revelation 17:3,4). God calls His people to separate from Babylon (Revelation 18:2–4).

16. How do conduct and obedience relate to salvation?

Read what the Bible says: James 2:20–26.

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Christian obedience and conduct are the evidence that we have been saved by Jesus Christ (James 2:20–26). If a person’s lifestyle does not change, the conversion most likely was not genuine. Converted people find their greatest joy in discovering Jesus’ will in everything and joyously following where He leads.

17. Should we expect everyone to approve of the Christian lifestyle?

Read what the Bible says: 1 Corinthians 2:14.

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No. Jesus said that the things of God are foolishness to the world because people lack spiritual discernment (1 Corinthians 2:14). When Jesus speaks of conduct, He is laying down principles for those seeking to be led by His Spirit. His people will be grateful and will joyously follow His counsel; others may not understand or approve.

18. How would a person who rejects Jesus’ standards for conduct view heaven?

Read what the Bible says: 2 Corinthians 6:14–17.

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Such people would be miserable in heaven. Heaven would be “hell” for them, because it holds none of the things they clung to on earth. Christian standards simply make no sense to them (2 Corinthians 6:14–17). That is why it is so important to form a genuine love relationship with Jesus now.

19. How can I follow these Bible guidelines without appearing judgmental or legalistic?

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All that we do should have one motivation — to express love for Jesus (1 John 3:22). When Jesus is exalted and revealed to people through our lives (John 12:32), many are drawn to Him. Our one question should always be, “Will this honor Jesus?” As we spend time with Him, we become like Him (2 Corinthians 3:18), and those around us will see that we have been with Jesus (Acts 4:13). Such Christians will never become pharisaical, judgmental, or legalistic. No one can serve two masters (Matthew 6:24): those who follow Jesus’ principles are changed into His image and prepared for heaven.

20. Do you want to love Christ so much that following His principles for Christian living will be a joy and delight?

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Your Questions Answered

1. I know what God would have me do about my lifestyle, but I don’t feel ready to begin. What do you suggest?

Begin today! Never depend on feelings. God guides through the words of Scripture (Isaiah 8:20). Feelings often lead us astray. The Jewish leaders felt they should crucify Jesus, but they were wrong. Many will feel saved before the second coming, yet be lost (Matthew 7:21–23). The devil influences feelings; if we depend on them, he will lead us to destruction.

2. I really want to do a certain thing, but because of how it appears, some might feel I am doing evil. What should I do?

The Bible calls us to abstain from every form of evil (1 Thessalonians 5:22). The apostle Paul said that if his eating offended someone, he would never touch that food again (1 Corinthians 8:13). He also said that if he ignored the offended person’s feelings and continued, he would be sinning.

3. It seems churches list too many things I must and must not do. Isn’t following Jesus what really matters?

Yes — following Jesus is what matters. But it means one thing to one person and something quite different to another. The only safe way to know what following Jesus means is to discover what He says in the Bible on any question. Those who lovingly follow Jesus’ commands will one day enter His kingdom (Revelation 22:14); those who follow man-made rules could be led away from it (Matthew 15:3–9).

4. A few of God’s requirements seem unreasonable and unnecessary. Why are they so important?

Children often feel some of their parents’ requirements (“don’t play in the street”) are unreasonable, yet later thank them for them. In dealing with God we are “children,” because His thoughts are as high above ours as the heavens are above the earth (Isaiah 55:8,9). We need to trust our loving heavenly Father in the few areas we may not understand. He will never withhold anything good from us (Psalm 84:11). The new birth is the key: a born-again person will happily and trustingly follow Jesus in everything (1 John 5:4).

5. Will I benefit from Jesus’ loving principles, laws, and commands?

Absolutely! Every principle of Jesus brings incredible blessings. Among them: Jesus as a personal Friend and Partner, freedom from guilt and fear, peace of mind, indescribable joy, better health, a longer life, and the assurance of a home in heaven. The believer receives from his heavenly Father what even the richest person on earth cannot buy.

6. Do I have a responsibility to convict other people about standards and lifestyle?

The best rule is to be concerned about our own lifestyle. The Bible calls us to examine ourselves (2 Corinthians 13:5). When our lifestyle is as it should be, our example serves as a silent witness and we don’t need to lecture anyone. Of course, parents have a special responsibility to help their children understand how to follow Jesus.

7. Isn’t it legalism to follow these rules of conduct?

Not unless a person does it in order to be saved. Salvation comes only as a miraculous, free gift from Jesus. Salvation by works (or conduct) is no salvation at all. But following Jesus’ standards because we have been saved and love Him is never legalism.

8. Aren’t Christian standards cultural? Shouldn’t they change with the times?

Customs may change, but Bible standards endure. The word of our God stands forever (Isaiah 40:8). Christ’s church must lead, not follow; it must not be programmed by culture or the trends of the day. We are called not to bring the church down to erring human standards, but up to Jesus’ pure standards. He calls us to come out from among them, be separate, and not touch what is unclean (2 Corinthians 6:17).

9. Surely not all dancing is evil. Didn’t David dance before the Lord?

True — not all dancing is evil. David danced before the Lord by himself as an expression of praise for His blessings (2 Samuel 6:14,15). It was like the joy of the healed lame man who leaped and walked, praising God (Acts 3:8–10). Such rejoicing is encouraged. But dancing with the opposite sex, which can lead to immorality, and lewd dancing are condemned by the Bible.

10. What does the Bible say about people condemning and judging one another?

The Bible warns us not to judge, so that we will not be judged (Matthew 7:1,2). The Bible says that whoever judges another condemns himself by the same judgment (Romans 2:1). Judgment belongs to Jesus (John 5:22). When we pass judgment on others, we usurp Christ’s role as judge. Our concern should be, first of all, our own life.

Summary Sheet

Check the correct options.

1. Jesus’ loving principles for conduct become a joy to follow when I fall in love with Him.
2. Following Jesus’ standards of conduct because I have been saved and love Him is legalism.
3. The real Author of the Bible is Jesus.
4. “Do not love the world” means that we should not love:
5. Why does Jesus give us specific commands, laws, and rules?
6. Two good rules for deciding what is proper Christian conduct are:
7. Satan has access to us only through our five senses.
8. For which facets of Christian conduct does Jesus provide specific counsel and guidelines?
9. How do conduct and obedience relate to salvation?
10. If I refuse to forsake something Jesus asks me to forsake, God considers that unforsaken thing an idol.
11. The Christian life is like a good marriage: success comes when our aim is to please the One we love.
12. By which three avenues does Satan lead people into sin?
13. Guarding our thoughts is crucial because thoughts can become actions.
14. Some promised benefits of faithfully following Jesus are:
15. If my conduct offends another Christian, what should I do?
16. What does Jesus call a person determined to have his own way rather than listen to Bible counsel?
17. A person who rejects Jesus’ standards for Christian living would:
18. I want to love Christ so much that following His principles for Christian living will be a joy and delight.
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